4 Exercises for a Finances Journal
Budget? Check. Savings account? Check. Retirement account? Check. If you’re following all the right steps, but still struggle financially, try writing in a finances journal. The practice of writing down your thoughts has the power to improve your relationship with money and keep you on track toward your financial goals. For 2020, challenge yourself to document your financial journey! The following exercises can help cultivate a more positive mindset around money and strengthen your money management.
It’s easy to fall into the “more is better" trap: Earn MORE. Have MORE. But always seeking more can feel like an uphill climb toward an unreachable summit. If you can recognize and appreciate everything you have, you’ll feel content knowing that you do have enough. Resist the pressure to keep up with a standard way of living! Here’s inspiration to help you practice gratitude with your writing:
- More Mentality: If only I made X amount, then I’ll be happier because I can do and have XYZ.
- Giving Gratitude: I have a job and income that meets my needs. There’s more to life than money!
- More Mentality: I wish I could travel more like my friends, who are always vacationing to exotic destinations.
- Giving Gratitude: I love taking a small weekend getaway. I don’t have to put large trip expenses onto my credit card.
Celebrate Mini Successes
Does mounting debt or a small savings discourage you? The numbers can be overwhelming! Use journaling as a way to set small goals and celebrate when you achieve them. Let’s say you’re still in credit card debt, but you’ve been able to boost your score with higher on-time payments. Win! Or you may not have a six-month emergency fund yet, but there was a time when you had zero savings, and now you’re halfway there. Win! Mini victories help keep you motivated and on track. Be proud of your progress!
Give Yourself Permission to Be Human
Like following a strict diet, following a strict budget gets exhausting. And sometimes, you just need to break a “rule.” It’s OK! Turn to your journal to explore why you went on a huge shopping spree or indulged on an expensive dinner. Was it worth it? How can you recover? Is your budget too rigid that it causes you to impulsively overspend? Documenting your experience can help you understand why you splurged and how you can move forward on the right track.
Discover Your Financial Values
A financial value shapes a goal and guides a behavior. Use your journal as a place for discovering what’s most important to you financially, along with what kind of spender, saver, sharer and investor you want to be. What past experiences dictate how you manage money today? Could you reframe your perception of money? What matters most to you monetarily? See if you connect to any of these values:
- Subscribing to a belief system of consuming less stuff, de-valuing materialistic items or adopting a minimalistic lifestyle.
- Resisting instant gratification and impulse buying so you can cultivate long-term financial stability.
- Prioritizing a healthy financial future over short-term pleasure derived from careless, unnecessary daily spending.
Once you establish your financial values, you can refer back to them for support anytime you’re facing a challenging choice.
Make Journaling a Habit
Regularly writing about your financial journey keeps you accountable. It’s a tool for finding contentment with your current financial state, while gaining insight about any setbacks and learning more about your spending habits — so you can create successful outcomes. To get started, just start writing. Then schedule a routine “journal writing” appointment with yourself. Pour yourself a cup of coffee, play some relaxing music and enjoy the exercises!
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